Are you afraid of cumming?

Fear of desire in a world meant to scare us; plus: links!

A few months ago my therapist asked me, “are you afraid of cumming?” I was taken aback by the question because 1) it was very personal 2) my immediate reaction was, “no of course not,” and 3) deep down I knew he was onto something. 

Since my analyst asked me that question, I’ve been thinking about the terror that comes with expressing any desire in this …

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